I’ve created a “Getting Started Checklist” of 8 different (and I think simple) areas in which I believe I personally, could use some improvement. I wonder if you can relate to any of these. I have put this checklist (see below) up on the inside of my front door, to remind me daily to put some real effort in, and I am allowing myself to be completely open to this. I am going to be “all in”! What about you? Are you already “all in”?

Some Refining to My Mindset.

Starting right now, I am going to follow my own advice. Really. Before I go out that door, I will think about my appearance, and how I am presenting myself to the world. I will have my hair and face done (not OVER done), I’ll be dressed appropriately (not OVER, and not like I just rolled out of bed) and I’ll be ready to face the world, looking and feeling like myself…my better self. Shouldn’t we always feel like our better selves?

I don’t know about you, but just the act of smiling can sometimes help to fuel me in a positive way. I do already tend to be a little upbeat and carry a positive attitude, but the act of smiling, I believe helps to radiate it to others, in that moment that we share. So, let’s remember to put a smile on our face, for ourselves and everyone we meet. Let’s spread some positivity and remember the focus does not always need to be on us, but also on others, and what is going on around us. Let’s pay attention to what we are actually hearing, seeing and feeling. Let’s try to absorb it. We will surely walk away more informed, possibly rejuvenated or inspired even.

Dating Mindset…Hmmm?! During the upcoming week/s I will think about those that have shown interest in the past…but I passed on and revisit possibilities, had I been more open. Was there something more right there in front of me, than I allowed myself to entertain? Do you think you did any of that? I will also reach out to those I wish would show more interest. Is there anything there to cultivate? What do you think? Would it be worth revisiting?

I accept the possibility that I may have created unrealistic barriers for myself, that I should consider taking down or at least consider reconstructing. Have you done this? You know the routine; Out there looking for Mr. or Ms. Right, and none of us are perfect, but what is the balance of our priorities? It’s not just for the company, it is for the right company. Right?! Have we been giving the potentially right company, the right consideration?

Recalling a Missed Opportunity.

I remember one evening I was at a local pub, scheduled to be there to meet parties interested in picking up tickets for an upcoming event. While waiting for individuals to arrive, a kind gentleman struck up a conversation with me. He was pleasant, interesting and inquisitive. Also quite handsome as I recall. And it turned out, though we were just outside of town, we both actually resided within the same. I was so distracted at times, checking my phone for messages, etc., that it wasn’t until later that night, when I was at home, that I recalled him saying he hoped he’d run into me sometime in our mutual town. To this day, I occasionally drive by where he mentioned walking his dog, hoping to run into him. Why didn’t I pick up on his signal that night? I wish to avoid this regret in the future.

Here We Go.

I will let you know how I make out with the checklist below. This time around I want to start at home…be open and honest with myself. I realize this may take some time and I will have patience. But I’ll share my thoughts and experiences of my, being “all in”. I would love to hear about your experiences! The journey will start on this avenue first and then travel some others.

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